Core Principle: Control What You Can
- The underlying theme across these approaches is the emphasis on focusing on and controlling what is within one’s personal sphere of influence, rather than wasting energy on external circumstances beyond one’s control.
Key Components:
- Own It (NLP)
- Recognizing one’s personal agency and responsibility for their thoughts, reactions, and responses.
- Committing to proactively control and shape what is within one’s control.
- Accepting and adapting to what is outside of one’s control.
- Stoicism
- Developing wisdom, self-control, and resilience in the face of challenges.
- Maintaining a calm, rational mindset by distinguishing between what can and cannot be controlled.
- Accepting fate and living in harmony with nature/the universe.
- NLP Techniques
- Using language and cognitive patterns to reframe perspectives and behaviors.
- Employing techniques like pattern interrupts, anchoring, and reframing to break free of limiting beliefs.
- Leveraging the connection between the mind, language, and behavior to achieve desired outcomes.
Practical Application
- Individuals apply this framework to:
- Identify and focus on the aspects of their life they can control (thoughts, reactions, responses).
- Cultivate a mindset of acceptance, equanimity, and resilience towards external circumstances.
- Utilize NLP techniques to reshape limiting beliefs, behaviors, and communication patterns.
- Ultimately, achieve greater personal agency, emotional regulation, and goal attainment.
This highlight the synergies between these three complementary approaches – “Own It” from NLP, Stoic philosophy, and NLP techniques – in empowering individuals to take charge of their lives by concentrating on what is within their control. This framework provides a holistic system for developing self-mastery, adaptability, and the ability to navigate life’s challenges effectively.
Citations:
[1] https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/stoicism-neuro-linguistic-programming-nlp-matt-cole
[2] https://quenza.com/blog/knowledge-base/neuro-linguistic-programming/
[3] https://www.tonyrobbins.com/leadership-impact/nlp-techniques/
[4] https://mentalhealthandwealth.com/connecting-nlp-neuro-linguistic-programming-with-mindfulness-an-interview-with-tonikia-steans/
[5] https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/lucky-13-chapter-9-communication-vic-pepe?trk=pulse-article
